For Sobriety, Lifestyle Matters More Than You Think

For Sobriety, Lifestyle Matters More Than You Think | Transcend Texas

The ultimate goal for any addict, regardless of what kind of substance they used to abuse, is permanent sobriety. It’s to be able to look back, never forget what happened and yet still enjoy life with a cleared conscience, a crisp mind and a circle of friends and family.

Achieving that state of sobriety is what drug addiction treatment is for. From detox and rehab to group therapy, medication and self-disciplined recovery guides, there are countless ways to combat addiction depending on what you’re addicted to, what stage of recovery you’re in, and how well you’re reacting to a given treatment option.

One factor that gets overlooked when discussing recovery is the sheer power of proper lifestyle changes. Through some much-needed tweaks to the way you live, you can entirely supplant the craving for drugs with different mental stimuli, and rewire your brain to forget the drugs, and instead rely on other stimuli.

You’ll never quite forget what it was like to be high, and you’ll never quite forget the darker days. But you can teach your brain to return to the way it was before the addiction kicked in, and you can live a sober life free from relapses. And here’s why lifestyle changes are so integral for that.

Good Habits Can Replace Drug Use

It’s really as simple as that – drug use often (not always) abuses brain plasticity and makes significant physical changes in the way your brain works while you’re on drugs. At first, the drug is a voluntary choice. With time, addiction can feel like a trap.

Getting out of it requires you to not only be motivated enough to renounce your addiction, but also replace drug use with something else. Drug use is often a maladaptive behavior – it can be a coping mechanism for stress, trauma, abuse, or peer pressure.

The tough but highly rewarding challenge is to replace it with a set of adaptive coping mechanisms, including good sleep, better food, and exercise, going out with friends who care about you and meeting new people, and becoming part of a family, community or company that includes you and gives you a sense of purpose.

While maladaptive coping behaviors are always rewarding in the short-term – like drug use – they only cause more issues in the long-term. Adaptive behaviors on the other hand require a bit more of an investment to get into in the short-term, but keeping them up over the course of months and years produces changes both physically and mentally that help you deal with your emotional issues, see things rationally, and achieve an objectively healthier form of happiness.

Healthy Eating Can Help Your Mind

Research shows that food has a relationship with mental illness. Eating the right foods can help you combat depression, anxiety, and even addiction. Of course, the food alone won’t do it – a quality diet is great, but it isn’t a panacea. Understanding the impact of something as simple as a diet change on physical health, emotional health and your self-esteem, however, is a great primer on why lifestyle changes should be pursued.

And the benefits don’t stop after long-term sobriety. You continue to benefit from a good diet through longevity, better physical condition, and of course, potentially lower healthcare costs.

Exercise Is a Perfect Recovery Tool

Addiction is powerful because it hijacks the part of the brain dedicated to regulating pleasure. Exercise can help you restore that part back to normal. It’s been common knowledge for a while now that physical health and mental health heavily correlate, and that one can help prevent issues with the other.

Many people, however, lack the motivation or conviction to follow through with regular exercise. Struggling with drug addiction can give you the motivation to kick your addiction to the curb and hit the gym instead.

Fitness as the Key

However, if you have the aptitude for it, then you can turn exercise into a goal – a new healthy obsession. Note, that the term obsession here doesn’t refer to an actual obsession. There’s a thin line between obsession and passion, and having a healthy passion for fitness (one that won’t cost your health) can be a good way to keep sober, and it’s not just for the fact that exercise is conducive to better mental health.

Having a goal, such as a competition, weight goal, or sports benchmark, gives you something important to strive for while helping you improve yourself, transform yourself, and steal away the power that addiction used to have over you.

Seeking Out a Goal

If you’re not the type to get serious or competitive about physical exercise and fitness – be it training for a specific sport, training for martial arts, training for weightlifting, Crossfit tournaments, or just training for the sake of bodybuilding – then you can adopt a different goal as part of your recovery process.

If you discover a new love for video games, hiking, or Victorian literature, then get serious about it. Turn your hobby into a hobby you can profit from, emotionally and perhaps even financially. Write and talk about what you love. Go to conventions and meet new people. Get into any form of competition if that’s what you’re about.

Once you discover something you can be a fully-fledged enthusiast about and dedicate yourself to it, you create something that a.) will benefit you in the long-term, and b.) give you more reason to remain sober. You make yourself accountable. Why give up what you’ve worked hard to learn and achieve for another hit? Why let go of your newfound long-term happiness and true joy for something as artificial as a drug high?

Changing the way you live and embracing an aspect of life you can be truly passionate about is one of the best ways to apply everything you learned in your first few days of sober living. It’s fulfilling, rewarding, and best of all, you’re doing it for yourself. Working on yourself is a great way to differentiate who you are from what you once were – by undergoing a personal transformation, you can come to closure and officially separate yourself from the past.

It won’t be easy – dedication never is. But it’ll be worth every minute spent and every ounce of sweat lost.

5 Adrenaline-Boosting Activities To Fuel Your Sobriety

5 Adrenaline-Boosting Activities To Fuel Your Sobriety | Transcend Texas

Recovery isn’t always a piece of cake. Okay, that’s probably the understatement of the century. In the first 12 months after dedicating yourself to sober living, finding ways to have fun can become a separate challenge in its own right. Boredom (the recovering addict’s biggest nemesis) can strike and increase our risk of relapse. Your energy levels may reach an all-time low as your brain’s chemistry resets and adapts to this new normal.

For people who relied on substances to motivate or energize them through the day, even just getting through work or daily tasks can seem daunting. The concept of having “fun” without your drug or behavior of choice might seem as foreign as learning to use chopsticks for the first time, but it is possible!

If you’ve been feeling bleak, restless, and bored with your new sober living lifestyle, it may be time to dial up the notch a bit. Finding new ways to boost adrenaline and endorphins in a way that’s healthy and safe is not only possible but also highly recommended. These adrenaline-boosting activities will have your heart pumping and your excitement level skyrocketing, all without the need for drugs.

Better still, they’ll provide you with valuable insight about your personality along the way.

Running

A great many recovering addicts take up jogging or running after detox, and with good reason: it boosts adrenaline and improves overall health when undertaken correctly. Fitness Magazine states that just five to 10 minutes per day can significantly decrease your risk of cardiovascular events like heart attacks and stroke, improve joint strength, and even provide you with much-needed meditative alone time. If that’s not enough to convince you, some studies show a distinct link between running, faster physical recovery, and fewer drug cravings over time.

There’s also the “runner’s high” many people experience when they run; this feeling is tied to happiness-boosting brain chemicals, and may help to reduce stress and depression. The term “run it off” is very commonly heard in addictions therapy groups simply because running can let you “burn off” negative emotions like anger, sadness, or despair.

Psychologically, running teaches us to set reasonable goals, how to judge our own capabilities, and how to be confident in our physical and emotional strength, too.

So how can you make running a part of your everyday life? First, understand that it’s not as easy as slapping on the trainers and running for 30 minutes. That’s too much and too fast. First, see your doctor and have a full physical. If he or she approves, start with a 5-minute walk or jog one to two times per day. Then, slowly work towards 30 to 60 total minutes per day.

High-Impact Cardio & Aerobics

Craving company and feeling a bit restless, bored, and lonely? High-impact cardio or aerobics may be just the ticket to kick you out of that funk. Fast-paced routines like spinning, Tae Bo, and aerobic dance get you moving to the tune of fun, energizing music, picking up your heart rate and boosting adrenaline while improving overall health.

Which formats are best? The answer isn’t simple; it can differ from person to person. If you’re new to exercise in general, try starting with water aerobics for low-impact, high-energy fun. If you’re in fairly good physical shape, you have more options. The average, otherwise healthy individual should be fine to take up a basic 20-minute aerobic, spinning, or Pilates routine quite easily.

High-impact cardio is an experience best had in the comfort of others, so hit up your local gym or studio and join a group whenever possible. Excitement is contagious, and you’ll get an adrenaline boost simply from being around others who are having good, clean fun.

Rock or Mountain Climbing

Climbing the walls with boredom in recovery? Put two feet on solid ground again and save your climbing for the real deal – rock climbing. This timeless, ancient sport has been around for centuries, and it often seems that humans just have an innate nature to climb on top of the world around them. As children, we climb rocks, trees, and occasionally, objects we shouldn’t in the living room, much to our parent’s chagrin. I was often labeled a mountain goat for the same reason in childhood; if it was there, I was going to climb on top of it and feel like I owned the world.

There’s just something intrinsically thrilling about climbing. It gets your heart pumping, forces you to think on your feet, and requires you to sharpen your focus and take in the environment around you. Physically, it improves muscle strength and coordination, and may even reduce the risk of cardiovascular events.

Mentally/emotionally, it teaches you how to set and achieve reasonable goals, how to persevere, and how to be confident in your ability to make decisions, even when under pressure. It isn’t difficult to outline exactly how each of those could benefit someone in recovery.

Before you run out and start scaling the nearest cliff, understand that safety is important. Find a local club or organization and have someone teach you how to climb safely and properly. Never, ever climb alone or without equipment – doing so is dangerous and becomes less about enjoying healthy, safe adrenaline-boosting activities and more about putting yourself at risk.

Scuba Diving

Live near the ocean or maybe a lake? If so, you’re in luck. You’re one of the very fortunate few who probably have access to scuba diving – an activity that gives you a first-hand glimpse into an entire world most of us will never see. Scuba diving isn’t particularly taxing (though better cardiovascular health is possible from proper breath management and swimming), so it’s not the exercise itself that boosts adrenaline here; it’s the wonder of the underwater world.

Discovering fish, coral, plants, and shells up close and first hand induces a feeling that’s seldom found in other activities. You become the Jacques Cousteau of the recovery world, boldly going where no man (well, okay, few men, anyway) have ever gone before. That feeling of childlike wonder and amazement is hard to find in recovery, especially if you relied upon substances for excitement.

If you can afford to do so, breaking free of your everyday experience and heading to Costa Rica or the Pacific Islands will afford you one of the most sensational experiences you’ll ever have. But even just exploring the closest underwater environment? That’s pretty amazing, too.

Skiing, Snowboarding & Tobogganing

Last, but certainly not least, is downhill skiing, snowboarding, and tobogganing. All three of these winter sports let you indulge your inner child and fly down the hill super-fast. Get going good enough, or learn to take ramps and jumps, and you may even find that it feels like you’re flying. It’s the sheer speed and joy experienced that’s the ticket to happiness in these three iconic winter sports, so the next time the snow hits, snuggle up in a snowsuit and head out into the frigid cold for some fun.

If you have a local ski hill nearby, take a beginner’s skiing or snowboarding class to help you learn the basics. Most hills will rent you both boots and equipment for the duration of your stay. Set yourself basic, reasonable goals and continue to practice patiently. Even though you start out on the bunny hill, you will eventually make it to the black diamond runs. Good things come with time and proper safety precautions, and you’ll find your confidence growing right along with your skill.

Don’t have a local ski hill? Take a drive around and find a good hill that doesn’t end in a roadway. Break out the equipment and make use of nature’s natural ski hills all around you. Wondering what to do if you don’t get snow? Just switch things up and get out on the water for a bit of wakeboarding or water skiing instead.

It’s easy to get into a rut in recovery. Attend meetings. Go to therapy. Eat. Shower. Rinse, lather repeat. All of these are crucial to your success, but so is having a bit of fun and excitement now and again. Remember, whatever adrenaline-boosting activity you choose, it’s important that you move forward safely and with guidance. It’s not about just jumping into the path of danger without any consideration for your health. It’s about is honing your ability to take positive risks as you develop new and healthy hobbies.

What Does “Having Fun” Mean To You?

What Does "Having Fun" Mean to You? | Transcend texas

When you were addicted to alcohol and drugs, you might have developed an idea of fun. You might have concluded that to have fun, you’ve got to be high or drunk. You’ve got to be in an altered state of consciousness in order to do things you might not otherwise do (like act wild and crazy or just to be funny). You might have concluded that without alcohol or drugs, you’re boring and you’re friends are boring.

Truth is, you can have fun while sober too. You may have to change your idea of fun. You might also need to change some of your tastes and preferences when it comes to fun. Just like when you’re in a new country and you’re trying new foods, you learn to like things you thought you wouldn’t at first. Your tastes change by the time you go home and suddenly you’re eating foods you weren’t open to before.

In the same way, your tastes with exciting and enjoyable activities need to change. You might have enjoyed the thrill of being drunk while riding on a motorcycle. But obviously there’s a huge danger there. With the excitement of substance abuse come major risks, which is what likely prompted you to get sober. With the life change that sobriety brings, you may need to find new ways to enjoy yourself.

To find out what fun might mean to you, here is a list of effects that pleasurable and enjoyable experiences have on people:

  • Makes you lose track of time.
  • Puts a smile on your face.
  • Helps you genuinely feel connected to others.
  • Makes you feel good about life.
  • Puts you in a spontaneous mood.
  • Naturally gives you a feeling of freedom.
  • Helps you feel outrageous.
  • Gives you a feeling that you’re going with the flow.
  • Helps you feel a lack of responsibility.
  • Makes you feel carefree.
  • Makes you laugh.
  • Brings you a feeling of excitement.
  • Connects you with the stillness inside.
  • Allows you to take your responsibility hat off for awhile.
  • Makes you feel happy.
  • Helps you feel playful.
  • Lets you experience something new.

To experience these effects, here are some suggestions for getting the excitement out of life without drugs or alcohol:

Be Creative

One of the best ways to discover spontaneity is to get creative. And you can do that in a number of ways – writing a song, playing music, painting, dancing, or sculpting. Let yourself experience the pleasure of creativity.

Spend Time with Friends

You might not be getting wasted, but sometimes, having a good roaring laugh with your friends can be very rewarding. You might feel the connection you have with them and enjoy the rolling laughs. Like exercise, laughing too is known for having many health benefits, including immediately lightening one’s mood.

Listen to Music

There is an incredible amount of passion and vitality that can be found in the lyrics as well as in the notes of many songs. Plus, music can touch people in ways that nothing else can. It can bring inspiration, clarity of vision, and stir up our own passions.

Travel

As described above, travel can stretch a person in positive ways. There’s something about following wherever your heart leads and not having a care in the world. Traveling can bring the excitement of being on the open road or in a new country and meeting new friends.

Set a Goal for Yourself

One of the greatest feelings to have is one of accomplishment, especially with something you didn’t think you could do. If you set a goal and you work toward it day by day, you’re likely to reach it. And doing so, can bring great emotional and psychological rewards.

Have a Good Workout

Many men and women find excitement in running on the treadmill and firing away at a punching bag. Plus, when you see that you’re body is getting more tone and fit, you’ll probably experience some satisfaction and enjoyment. But you can also experience pleasure right in the act of working out when those endorphins are released in the brain. In fact, regularly working out actually comes with many health benefits that can support your mental, emotional, and physical recovery from addiction.

Pick Up an Old Hobby

If addiction forced you put aside something you were passionate about, now can be a time to pick that up again. It might have been riding a bike, playing the guitar, or learning about the stars. Now that you’re sober return to what brought you pleasure naturally.

These are a few suggestions for experiencing true fun in your life. Although an addiction might have taught you that you need to use substances to have fun, you can turn that around and enjoy your life substance-free.

 

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