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Making Sober Friendships in Recovery

Posted on October 10, 2016 by JohnAdmin

Sober friendships are a great way to start a new outlook on life when you are in recovery. Recovery from drugs and alcohol is a very taxing event on your mind and body. The number one priority is to maintain your sobriety. The last thing on your mind is the thought on making new friends. Though if and when you do, these new people in your life can help to not only give you the support you need but to also help in guiding you on a new life path. Sober friendships can help to put you at ease in surrounding that might trigger old feelings, and help to resolve any issues you might have with older friends. There are a few ways to make new sober friends and continue your path to recovery.

Taking up a hobby that involves other people is a great way to meet new people. Sports, music, exercise, biking, classes, and many others are great ways to find new friends. New activities and friends can help you both achieve what you need. Support groups are another great way to meet new sober friends. Joining a group that focuses on your issues will help you to find common ground with someone new. Partaking in sober activities and functions are another way to find new sober friendships. You can find these events online or even through meetings and support groups.

For more on sober friendships visit Life Hack HERE

Take a Sober Vacation

Posted on October 7, 2016 by JohnAdmin

Getting sober is something that takes a lot of time and patience. Over time you start to adapt to the changes of sober living. One of the biggest worries a lot of sober people have is what to do when they leave their area and comfort zones. Taking a vacation let alone a sober vacation is not an easy trip to make. There is an element of anxiety and fear that comes with vacations. Avoiding the trappings of those fancy and fruity cocktails isn’t easy, especially if your trip takes you to a tropical place. For those out there that have a fear of taking a sober vacation on their own, there is a company that helps facilitate sober vacations.

Sober Vacations International (SVI) has been in business for 30 years. SVI specializes in alcohol and drug free vacations. Vacationers dine with a group of people at a table in an open seating fashion. The company is 12 step based and features 5 meetings a day. Other sober vacationers start their own meetings on the beaches or other landmarks while on the trip. The point of the company is to bring sober people together and show that life can be lived without being under the influence of drugs or alcohol.

These vacations along with the other sober people on the trip all have a story to tell. Being around people that have been living a sober lifestyle can truly rub off on those that are still trying to figure it out. There are so many different ways to enjoy a vacation without a drink or drugs. When and if you feel ready take a small short trip first and go from there. Sober vacations can help you to also see the beauty of a place you never been to or only seen in pictures.

For more about sober vacations visit The Fix HERE

Resisting Drinking Socially

Posted on September 16, 2016 by JohnAdmin

When you come out of a treatment center, there are always those around you that think you’ll be fine just hanging out like you used to. Yet those friends don’t quite understand that being around these situations could act as a trigger to revert back to old ways.

Restraint is something that is a much needed coping mechanism to help deter one from falling down that old path again. Resisting drinking socially, is quite hard once you are out of recovery, especially when all you want to do is be with your friends. Putting your best interests in front of others is key to staying sober. Sobriety first. If the situations are making you uncomfortable maybe it’s not the right time to be there.

Perhaps if you plan on going out to a party for the evening, you bring your own non-alcoholic beverages. Most people who are hosting parties will be perfectly fine with that. Find other people around at the party that are doing something else besides drinking. Start playing a game with others to keep you busy and entertained. Some people there will want to try and delve into why you are now sober. You don’t have to answer that question, as it’s none of their business.

There might come a time when you are more than comfortable talking about your journey to being sober. Other times, not so much. The only thing you can do is what feels best for you. Maintain relationships with those around you that make you feel comfortable and respect your decisions. It’s perfectly fine to be a little apprehensive about going out with others. Trust your instincts and keep company with those that can help you keep you in check.

For more on how to deal with these situations read more on The Fix HERE

Tips for Sober Summer Fun in the Sun

Posted on July 7, 2016August 29, 2016 by JohnAdmin

Summer is upon us, which means lighter days and longer nights! BBQs, beaches, boogie boarding, and brunching are just a few things on the long list of awesome activities to enjoy all summer long. However, there is a whole other facet of embodied summer fun, and it involves booze. The good news is that there’s a lot more to summer than day-drinking and diving into a cooler of beer.

If you are in recovery, there is great fun to be had during the summer months – and you can avoid drugs and alcohol altogether. Sober Nation’s basic yet essential go-to tips for a fun, safe, and sober summer are equally awesome and unique.

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